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81 Days Until Your Wedding!
Your invitation is when you give credit to those who are responsible for making your day happen and let people know if it's a clam bake or a gala event.

Don't hesitate to include "casual dress" or "black tie optional" at the bottom of your invitation so that your guests have a clear idea of what to expect, especially out-of-towners. What you consider formal may not be to someone who is not from the same state as you.

Samples of Traditional/Formal Invitations - according to Weddingpaperdivas.com
1) When the bride's parents sponsor the wedding:
Mr. and Mrs. Alexander Smith
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter
Carol Ann
to
Mr. William James Clark
on Saturday, the fifth of August
Nineteen hundred and ninety-four
at two o'clock in the afternoon
Saint James by-the-Sea
La Jolla, California

2) When the groom's parents sponsor the wedding:
Mr. and Mrs. Michael Burdell Clark
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of
Miss Carol Ann Smith
to their son
Mr. William James Clark
3) When both the bride and groom's parents sponsor the wedding:
Mr. and Mrs. Alexander Smith
and
Mr. and Mrs. Michael Burdell Clark
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of their children
Miss Carol Ann Smith
to
Mr. William James Clark
OR
Mr. and Mrs. Alexander Smith
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter
Carol Ann Smith
to
William James Clark
son of Mr. and Mrs. Michael Burdell Clark

4) When the bride and groom sponsor their own wedding:
The honor of your presence is requested
at the marriage of
Miss Carol Ann Smith
and
Mr. William James Clark
OR
Miss Carol Ann Smith
and
Mr. William James Clark
request the honor of your presence
at their marriage

5) With divorced or deceased parents:
a) When the bride's mother is sponsoring the wedding and is not remarried:
Mrs. Julie Hurden Smith
requests the honor of your presence
at the marriage of her daughter
Carol Ann

b) When the bride's mother is sponsoring the wedding and has remarried:
Mrs. Julie Hurden Booker
requests the honor of your presence
at the marriage of her daughter
Carol Ann Smith
OR
Mr. and Mrs. John Thomas Booker
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of Mrs. Booker's daughter
Carol Ann Smith

c) When the bride's father is sponsoring the wedding and has not remarried:
Mr. Alexander Smith
requests the honor of your presence
at the marriage of his daughter
Carol Ann

d) When the bride's father is sponsoring the wedding and has remarried:
Mr. and Mrs. Alexander Smith
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of Mr. Smith's daughter
Carol Ann

6) Deceased parents:
a) When a close friend or relative sponsors the wedding:

Mr. and Mrs. Brandt Lawson
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of their granddaughter
Carol Ann Smith

7) In military ceremonies, the rank determines the placement of names:
a) Any title lower than sergeant should be omitted. Only the branch of service should be included under that person's name:
Mr. and Mrs. Alexander Smith
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter
Carol Ann
United States Army
to
William James Clark

b) Junior officers' titles are placed below their names and are followed by their branch of service:
Mr. and Mrs. Alexander Smith
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter
Carol Ann
to
William James Clark
First Lieutenant, United States Army

c) If the rank is higher than lieutenant, titles are placed before names, and the branch of service is placed on the following line:
Mr. and Mrs. Alexander Smith
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter
Carol Ann
to
Captain William James Clark
United States Navy

SAMPLE OF A LESS FORMAL MORE CONTEMPORARY INVITATION

Mr. and Mrs. Alexander Smith
would like you to
join with their daughter
Carol Ann
and
William James Clark
in the celebration of their marriage
Now just get married!
Danielle @ PARADISE